Well, it is Thursday. Only one day until the weekend (hallelujahhh!).
Although......
I'm not excited about what's going to happen this weekend...sigh.
So I watched the season finale of The Bachelor this week. I've never actually watched the show, but because Ellen made a big deal of it on her show and apparently there was some huge "scandal", I watched it. And it reallly made me think and I was completely able to relate.
Is it really possible to feel an insane/perfect/unbreakable connection with someone and love them so much that you can't imagine life without them......but that other person not feel anything at all??
I mean, if the conversation flows, you flirt and giggle, and find yourself dizzy from just being around them...can that all be one sided? Or is it mutual?
And then there's the more intimate connection. After you have a deep conversation with someone and you feel so emotionally bonded, can THAT be one sided?
Hmm. It just made me think. Personally, I would like to think that no, it isn't all one sided. If you are flirting, talking nonstop, hanging out, and generally inseperable, there has to be a reason for it beyond just that you are friends. But maybe, there is reason to prevent the other person from acting on that feeling. Like, maybe they are a douche like Jake, and too immature to handle a real committed relationship. Or, they have a girlfriend and can't act on their feelings.
Just sayin'.
I can't wait to be in love.
For real.
i want a love like Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennett (you have bewitched my body and soul)
i want a love that lasts forever. Like this.
I want a love like Walle and Eve (hold my hand through it all, babe).
I want a love like Jim and Pam (I was waiting for my wife).
I want a love like Luke and Lorelai (I will forever be loyal to Gilmore Girls!)
I want a love like Portia and Ellen that defies society and thrives.
I want a love like Holly Golightly and Fred and fall so deeply in love, I will have no choice but to take the risk. Fearlessly.
7 comments:
I know exactttly how you feel!!! I'm waiting for that perfect, or at least amazing, guy! and I don't even know who he is but I feel like I love him already! I probably sound a little crazy, but hopefully you know what I mean. :P
I love the pictures! I've never kissed a boy before, so it just makes me more impatient for that special moment, but I know I have to wait! :D (sorry for the long comment but I sooo understand you on this topic. haha)
And thank you so much for your wonderful comment! I blog for enthusiastic people like you! :) I'm so glad you found my blog and I'm excited to have found your's as well!
G'bless ya!
Erin :)
:) Your comment gave me the biggest smile. Thanks. Just to clarify; he's my boyfriend. Hehe.
This is such a gorgeous post, I think that when you learn to love yourself you are then open to other people falling in love with you too. And love is the best when it comes out of nowhere, so don't go looking. Let Mr Right come to you :) Haha
Hope you have a wonderful Friday! It's already 6pm Friday here - yay weekend! xxx
I love to love! And i feel the same, you took the words from my mouth (or from my keyboard)... I just had a boyfriend like a year and half ago, and it wasn't a long relationship. So i'm kinda like you. Let's wait for that mr. right guy =)
aww how sweet, I'm waiting to fall in love too
you have no idea how hot it is here though :) over 40 degrees celsius every day in summer. hehe. i cant wait until you find that love and i can hear all about it.. thank goodness we found eachother! xox
Heyyy=)
Thanks so much for stoppin by my blog!you are so sweet! =) i've been playing around with my blog today lol but the follow thingie is on the bottom right..i think lol. Love your blog btw!! followin!:D xoxo
Your first post is so cute. ;)
Mine was me trying so hard to be aloof. Ha.
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